We’re more alike than you think: Five questions – Part 3

j0439549 thumb Were more alike than you think:  Five questions   Part 3 We’re about a third of the way through our 100 women, 5 questions, 3 words or less Challenge. Thanks to everyone who’s participated!

If you’re not familiar with the challenge, it’s where we ask our readers to answer five questions. The challenge is two-fold. The first is getting 100 women to respond. The second, and even more challenging, is getting them to answer each question using three words or less (it’s not as easy as it sounds!) The goal is to see how much alike, and different, forty year old women around the world really are.

As you can imagine, the responses thus far have been really interesting. You probably won’t be surprised to learn that many of us list “finishing school” as the answer to the “Three 6 Mafia” question.  Whether it’s medical school or a bachelor’s degree, at forty, many women have their sites set on going back to school. For many of us, weight – or as Rachel put it, “my ass”  – is the monkey on our back we can’t shake (see “The life I’d Planned”). Relationships have simultaneously been our biggest regret and the thing we’re most proud of.  Whether it was the Greek, that first husband, or the three divorces, even at forty, wading through the relationship waters, for some of us at least, hasn’t gotten any easier. Other women listed their marriages and children as the thing they’re most proud of.

If you haven’t yet participated in our 5 question challenge, click here to include your answers (anonymously if you’d like) on our site. You can also add comments on our Facebook Fan page or follow us on Twitter. If you’ve got something to say and three words just won’t cut it, email us at contribute@womenatforty.com. We’d love to post your Women at Forty story on the site. Finally, if you’re reading Women at Forty from somewhere other than the U.S., here’s a challenge within a challenge for you – be the first Woman at Forty from your country to share your story with the rest of the world. We’d love to hear from you!

Here’s the latest sampling of responses to our “100 women, 5 questions, 3 words or less challenge”…

Tamika

1. Most exciting thing you did/plan to do at forty? buy a vacation home in another country
2. Biggest regret? not going to graduate school
3. The thing(s) you’re most proud of? my children and not giving up on my dreams
4. The monkey on your back you can’t shake? never feeling good enough
5. Finish this sentence (ok, so technically it’s not a question) – If Three 6 Mafia can win an Oscar, I can… win one too!

“HereandNow”

1. Most exciting thing you did/plan to do at forty? Moving out
2. Biggest regret? Feeling apologetic
3. The thing(s) you’re most proud of? Remaining calm
4. The monkey on your back you can’t shake? White cheddar popcorn
5. If Three 6 Mafia can win an Oscar, I can… still go to med school

Teresa

1. Most exciting thing you did/plan to do at forty? Got a divorce
2. Biggest regret? 2 marriages!
3. The thing(s) you’re most proud of? New younger boyfriend
4. The monkey on your back you can’t shake? Those 2 divorces!
5. Finish this sentence (ok, so technically it’s not a question) – If Three 6 Mafia can win an Oscar, I can… be totally happy.

Dorothy

1.Most exciting thing you did/plan to do at forty? Leave everything behind and move to Granton, WI.
2.Biggest regret? Not finishing nursing school.
3.The thing(s) you’re most proud of? My Familia all of them.
4.The monkey on your back you can’t shake?…Smoking
5.Finish this sentence (ok, so technically it’s not a question) – If Three 6 Mafia can win an Oscar, I can…Finish school

Reese

1. Most exciting thing you did/plan to do at forty? month in europe
2. Biggest regret? not enough sex
3. The thing(s) you’re most proud of? happily single
4. The monkey on your back you can’t shake? a wicked ex
5. If Three 6 Mafia can win an Oscar, I can too!