A few weeks ago I put out a call to women to ask “What’s your best things about being forty?” I’ve gotten some great submissions from women who have fond memories of that year of their life. Pat’s 54 now, but remembers forty very clearly. Here’s the best thing about being forty in her own words…
At forty I felt sexy without working at it. As a 54-year-old woman I have to put a lot of effort into looking sexy. I don’t care how old you get I believe women still want to be viewed as attractive and sexy. But, the ability to do so diminishes markedly in your 50’s. Sure there are women who can carry it off, but they’re instantly recognizable because they’re trying so hard to look young it becomes painfully obvious they’re older than they look.
40 was also great because the future seemed boundless! I believed the world was my oyster and I could achieve anything I desired. At 54 reality has set in. Sure I can still achieve a lot and hope to, but time itself has become a limitation. It’s a much more finite quality for me now — and my mind play often centers on mortality and what lasting accomplishments I can make.
As I look back, 40 was a magical time for me. In reality it had all the ups and downs of any other decade, but it is an in-between time — when you’re young enough to still enjoy some of the benefits of youth and old enough not to jump straight into the pitfalls. It was a sweet time!
Pat’s statement “when you’re young enough to still enjoy some of the benefits of youth and old enough not to jump straight into the pitfalls” struck a chord with me. What are your thoughts?
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